<![CDATA[Hello, Starshine! - Searching]]> https://forum.hellostarshinepub.com/ Sun, 05 Jul 2026 17:52:14 +0000 MyBB <![CDATA[[MM] ngl this is mostly an example, OC | 1x1 - LFG]]> https://forum.hellostarshinepub.com/showthread.php?tid=125 Wed, 21 Aug 2024 17:55:59 +0000 starshine]]> https://forum.hellostarshinepub.com/showthread.php?tid=125 0/3 roleplay slots taken.
  • me: 32 gay man-thing. writer by trade, semi-retired roleplayer.
  • i can write dom/sub/switch tops/bottoms/verses and i prefer my partner to be the same.
  • i write 1st, 2nd or 3rd person, present tense. i have no minimum word count. though i am able, i prefer not to go over 300 words. i do not require mirroring, nor do i care what tense you write in or how long it takes you to reply. depending on my schedule, you can expect replies anywhere from daily to bi-weekly. i'm dyslexic, so expect missing words or odd misspellings : ')
  • 1x1 preferred, but small groups (<5 people) welcome.
  • i only write men, and vastly prefer m/m, or m/nb and nb/nb with an achillean flavour. however, if you don't mind something pg-13, i am content to do any other orientation where i play a man. content to double, triple, etc. but not with the expectation of doing one pairing "for me" and one "for you." they should all be for both of us.
  • i don't use references or face claims. please don't ask unless you want me to make an ugly doodle in photoshop.
  • i'll probably let you know if i'm too busy or not feeling it, but i don't care if you do the same. ditch/ghost if that's your jam.
  • here preferred, telegram or other forums acceptable. if interested, please reply here or pm : D

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i don't really carry specific plots around in my pocket anymore, but generally speaking, i enjoy
  • historical RPs, usually medieval or 19th-mid-20th century, esp post-wwi and post-wwii.
  • contemporary low fantasy, like werewolves who work as personal trainers or dragons who make potions.
  • gothic horror/Something Is Wrong With This Place, monsters, eldritch horrors, etc.
  • fucked up power dynamics like god/worshipper, owner/pet, misogyny/misgendering/transphobia, king/vassal, sexually harassing customer/minimum wage retail worker.
  • self-discovery, character-driven plot, explorations of self or of trauma.
  • thinly veiled smut.

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Current Roleplays: None]]> 0/3 roleplay slots taken.
  • me: 32 gay man-thing. writer by trade, semi-retired roleplayer.
  • i can write dom/sub/switch tops/bottoms/verses and i prefer my partner to be the same.
  • i write 1st, 2nd or 3rd person, present tense. i have no minimum word count. though i am able, i prefer not to go over 300 words. i do not require mirroring, nor do i care what tense you write in or how long it takes you to reply. depending on my schedule, you can expect replies anywhere from daily to bi-weekly. i'm dyslexic, so expect missing words or odd misspellings : ')
  • 1x1 preferred, but small groups (<5 people) welcome.
  • i only write men, and vastly prefer m/m, or m/nb and nb/nb with an achillean flavour. however, if you don't mind something pg-13, i am content to do any other orientation where i play a man. content to double, triple, etc. but not with the expectation of doing one pairing "for me" and one "for you." they should all be for both of us.
  • i don't use references or face claims. please don't ask unless you want me to make an ugly doodle in photoshop.
  • i'll probably let you know if i'm too busy or not feeling it, but i don't care if you do the same. ditch/ghost if that's your jam.
  • here preferred, telegram or other forums acceptable. if interested, please reply here or pm : D

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i don't really carry specific plots around in my pocket anymore, but generally speaking, i enjoy
  • historical RPs, usually medieval or 19th-mid-20th century, esp post-wwi and post-wwii.
  • contemporary low fantasy, like werewolves who work as personal trainers or dragons who make potions.
  • gothic horror/Something Is Wrong With This Place, monsters, eldritch horrors, etc.
  • fucked up power dynamics like god/worshipper, owner/pet, misogyny/misgendering/transphobia, king/vassal, sexually harassing customer/minimum wage retail worker.
  • self-discovery, character-driven plot, explorations of self or of trauma.
  • thinly veiled smut.

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Current Roleplays: None]]> <![CDATA[Roleplay Search Guide]]> https://forum.hellostarshinepub.com/showthread.php?tid=5 Fri, 05 Apr 2024 20:22:03 +0000 starshine]]> https://forum.hellostarshinepub.com/showthread.php?tid=5
Thread Title Meta
There's certain things you can do to increase your chances of someone opening your thread. These matter less on a small forum, but it still can't hurt.
  1. Pairing: State explicitly what kinds of pairings you're looking for. If you're into MM, that's worth stating. If you're open to everything, say that!
  2. Fandom/OC: First, if you're only looking for Fandom or OC, you should say that. For fandom, it's also worth mentioning some of your fandoms, or if you only have one you're searching for, say that.
  3. LFG or 1x1: Whether you're looking for group roleplay or 1x1 will change who your audience is, and maybe change what kinds of responses you get.
  4. Vibes: Ideally, make your vibes somewhat clear with your title. Whether you're looking for devastating drama, light romance or comedy, or if you need a daily dose of plap plap to function, say that!

Some examples of banger titles:
  • [MM/MF] Fine boypussy wares within | OC, 1x1
  • [FF] Cool haunted house ghost hunter lesbian group
  • [Any] Let's make our MCU dolls kiss - 1x1 or Group

Thread Contents
Now that you've drawn a potential partner or group members in, it's time to get into more details! Most people start with some information about their style, expectations and standards, and if a partner gets past that, then it's time to talk plot ideas. Some people do it the other way around. Personally, I find the first way to be best, but there's no "right" or "wrong" way to organize your thread.

Some good information to include that can affect if someone thinks you're a good match or not:
  1. Word Count: What is your average word count? Do you expect a certain word count from partners? Do you want them to mirror you (similar word count) or do you prefer a dynamic style (often described as "write what you need to" or "mirroring not required")?
  2. Response Frequency: How often do you respond? Do you have the same expectation from your partner/group? This can be anything from once a month to multiple times a day, so it's important to specify.
  3. Grammar Standards & Language: Some people care about novel-level grammar and spelling. Others only care that they can read and understand their partner/group, and for others, they don't even care about that and are content to ask for clarification. This can also vary if you can/will roleplay in multiple languages or are looking for practice!
  4. Style: Do you write in first person or third? Do you write past tense or present tense? Maybe you write in future perfect! To some, this matters. To others, it doesn't.
  5. Personal Information: All forum members must be at least 18 years of age, but some people might care if you're over 25 or under 22. Similarly, they might care about your timezone or your marginalized experiences. You are not obligated to say anything if you don't want to, but if you want to offer any personal information, this can affect your partnerships.

What about plot idea? Well, there's so many ways to do this, it can be difficult to really say, but generally, some idea of setting, pairing, and the direction of the story is helpful. Or, if you don't have specific plots, provide some themes or dynamics you enjoy, and you and your partner can build something together! Some people write short book blurb style plots, and others have multiple paragraphs. Some have ideas for just their own character and leave room for the other party to find how to fit into that. There's so many ways to do this! I encourage you to go ahead and try things, or check other threads for inspiration.]]>
Thread Title Meta
There's certain things you can do to increase your chances of someone opening your thread. These matter less on a small forum, but it still can't hurt.
  1. Pairing: State explicitly what kinds of pairings you're looking for. If you're into MM, that's worth stating. If you're open to everything, say that!
  2. Fandom/OC: First, if you're only looking for Fandom or OC, you should say that. For fandom, it's also worth mentioning some of your fandoms, or if you only have one you're searching for, say that.
  3. LFG or 1x1: Whether you're looking for group roleplay or 1x1 will change who your audience is, and maybe change what kinds of responses you get.
  4. Vibes: Ideally, make your vibes somewhat clear with your title. Whether you're looking for devastating drama, light romance or comedy, or if you need a daily dose of plap plap to function, say that!

Some examples of banger titles:
  • [MM/MF] Fine boypussy wares within | OC, 1x1
  • [FF] Cool haunted house ghost hunter lesbian group
  • [Any] Let's make our MCU dolls kiss - 1x1 or Group

Thread Contents
Now that you've drawn a potential partner or group members in, it's time to get into more details! Most people start with some information about their style, expectations and standards, and if a partner gets past that, then it's time to talk plot ideas. Some people do it the other way around. Personally, I find the first way to be best, but there's no "right" or "wrong" way to organize your thread.

Some good information to include that can affect if someone thinks you're a good match or not:
  1. Word Count: What is your average word count? Do you expect a certain word count from partners? Do you want them to mirror you (similar word count) or do you prefer a dynamic style (often described as "write what you need to" or "mirroring not required")?
  2. Response Frequency: How often do you respond? Do you have the same expectation from your partner/group? This can be anything from once a month to multiple times a day, so it's important to specify.
  3. Grammar Standards & Language: Some people care about novel-level grammar and spelling. Others only care that they can read and understand their partner/group, and for others, they don't even care about that and are content to ask for clarification. This can also vary if you can/will roleplay in multiple languages or are looking for practice!
  4. Style: Do you write in first person or third? Do you write past tense or present tense? Maybe you write in future perfect! To some, this matters. To others, it doesn't.
  5. Personal Information: All forum members must be at least 18 years of age, but some people might care if you're over 25 or under 22. Similarly, they might care about your timezone or your marginalized experiences. You are not obligated to say anything if you don't want to, but if you want to offer any personal information, this can affect your partnerships.

What about plot idea? Well, there's so many ways to do this, it can be difficult to really say, but generally, some idea of setting, pairing, and the direction of the story is helpful. Or, if you don't have specific plots, provide some themes or dynamics you enjoy, and you and your partner can build something together! Some people write short book blurb style plots, and others have multiple paragraphs. Some have ideas for just their own character and leave room for the other party to find how to fit into that. There's so many ways to do this! I encourage you to go ahead and try things, or check other threads for inspiration.]]>